BRIAN AND ABBY

Carter Turned ONE

2010-03-10T20:43:00.000-08:00

Our little sweetheart turned one. He makes such cute faces

and laughs and smiles all of the time. He has the sweetest disposition.

He enjoyed his birthday party. He had fun splattering the

frosting on the floor and eating the cake. We feel so blessed

to have both our beautiful children.

We're still Alive and Around

2010-03-10T20:33:00.000-08:00

It's been awhile since we've updated this. We are doing well! We spent a lot of time at Disneyland these days. We got annual passes this year and during this season is the best time to go because it is not busy at all. We have so much fun (of course).

Avery loves Buzz Lightyear and Peter Pan.

This is Avery's snow white bike and she loves to sit on it in her favorite nightgown. She is a girl who loves pink.

Bath time

Brian took Avery on a Daddy-daughter date to D-land.

They had a good time just the two of them

They're Growing Up so Much!

2009-09-03T19:08:00.000-07:00

Carter's first outing after surgery!!!

Goin' Swimming.

So sweet.

After Surgery

2009-07-04T21:08:00.000-07:00

Carter's surgery went well. His surgeon was able to make the repair he required. The 24 hours following surgery he was draining quite of bit of blood so he required more blood transfusions but they were able to get that under control. He currently has buildup in his lungs and fluid around his lungs. They are working to take care of both of these problems. It looks like he will still require oxygen for a while at home until his lungs get strong enough without, but the goal is to ween him eventually. He is doing very well today. He was "talking" to me a lot and to the nurses. They all think he is so cute and come visit him often. He has been such a trooper through this whole thing. The Unit can't believe how calm and sweet he is. After surgery I guess he was going a little wild but we found out today that sometimes Morphine and Down's Syndrome don't mix. This picture was taken a few days after surgery. I decided I wouldn't scare anyone with a picture of ventilators, catheters, and other IV lines, so this is a toned down version of what he looked like after surgery. Thank you all for your prayers and love. We hope to bring Carter home very soon!

Fun Pictures

2009-07-04T20:56:00.000-07:00

Here are some fun pictures of Avery and Carter!

Avery just got her big girl bed. She loves it and wants to play on it all the time.

This is Carter the day before surgery. We were having a hard time getting any good ones because he kept moving around so much, but here he is.

Avery wanted to wear my shoes like she always does, and just as the picture was taking, she decided she wanted to put her finger in her nose. She just started this. She'll walk up to me, put her finger in her nose and say, "Mommy look" ... kids will be kids I guess.

I can't believe how much she is growing up.

So we have to check Carter's heart before we give him his medication and about a week ago I checked his heart, went to grab the medication off the counter in the kitchen, and came out to find Avery checking his heart. When she noticed me she said, " Mommy it's good." She is so cute with him.

Here is our little man, sooooo cute!

Carter's Blessing

2009-06-10T20:24:00.001-07:00

We had Carter's baby blessing in our home and some friends and family came to share the day with us. He looked so cute in his little outfit. These pictures really don't show how cute he was but here they are anyway. Oma and Ompa came down we had a really good time. It is always sad to see them go. Oh, and for those of you who don't know Carter is having his heart surgery on the 30th of this month. We are getting so excited, and scared, but mostly excited. We have heard that after these little ones have surgery there are amazing differences!!

Carter's Last Hospital Visit

2009-06-10T20:12:00.000-07:00

We have had a couple long weeks, but things are going much better. Carter had been having fevers for 3 weeks and finally they admitted him back into the hospital and then released him 2 days later, that same day his fever was 107.00 and his heart rate was 230. His normal rate is between 120-160 so you can tell how high it was. Anyway, he ended up with a digestive infection so we were in the hospital for another 7 days. Aunt Becca came down to help. She is almost finished with nursing school so she was able to say and do things we wouldn't have known to do. Thanks Becca. Avery had fun playing with her to. We were sad to see her go.

Aunt Becca did her hair

Isn't that a sweet smile of his even in the hospital

he is such a good baby

Carter's First Bath at Home

2009-04-17T13:57:00.000-07:00

We are sorry we haven't posted any pictures recently. We have been back for two additional hospital stays since we brought Carter home. He seems to be doing pretty well now. It looks like he will be having his heart surgery in June. We will keep you updated when we know more. Things are going pretty well, we are trying hard to find a new normal and hope as long as Carter stays healthy we can find that normal. He is such an angel. He just started to smile last week and is starting to track us with his eyes. It is fun to see that he has started to gain some weight and look healthy. Thank you all for your prayers and love. We appreciate it so much!!

Avery and Ompa and little Carter

2009-04-17T13:54:00.000-07:00

Pics of Avery

2009-04-17T13:45:00.000-07:00

Avery is living the terrible twos right now. She is also living the fabulous twos. She has melt downs frequently, but then turns around and is the cutest thing ever. She is really into talking on the phone as most little girls are. She's talking to her Aunt Becca here.

Finally her hair is growing longer so we are able to do more with it.

Sarah's daughter Tavie came to play and they had the best time. They played with the kitchen and play food for so long. They were making each other things and they would say please and thank you to each other. IT was great. We are sad that they don't live closer.

Uncle Tyler came to visit last week so he and Brian took Avery out for some fun times.

Coloring Easter Eggs

2009-04-17T13:25:00.000-07:00

We went to Grammy and Papa's house to color Easter eggs. It was Avery's first time and she did very well. Carter was good too. He is such a good baby. We basically never hear him cry and he is just so cute and cuddly. We're so blessed to have both of our children.

This is Hannah's Baby Georgia Belle. She is such a cutie!!!

Avery was very gentle when she was stirring, placing, and removing the eggs.

Our Little Ones

2009-04-17T13:15:00.000-07:00

Avery was so cute yesterday. She was bringing toys over to Carter and explaining to him how they are used. She is such a good big sister. It doesn't matter how bad of a day she is having she never is mean to "Baby Carter." She loves her little brother so much.

This was the best picture out of the 3 Brian took.
Avery has a thing about not opening her eyes for pictures.

This is his new little hat. It of course doesn't fit but it is still cute.

Home, Sweet Home!!!

2009-03-03T12:41:00.000-08:00

Carter came home on Sunday afternoon and we are adjusting to life with two children. He is doing great and loves his home. His bacterial infection cleared-up and gained weight so he was able to come home. He now weighs about 7 lbs. 5 oz. He is on oxygen because of bad circulation due to the hole in his heart. He may be able to come off the oxygen if his circulation improves as his heart grows and gets stronger.

Avery was so happy to see him and wanted to hold him from the very start. We wondered how she would react to having a baby brother, and she seems to be pleased. There is the occasional cry for mommy's attention, but adjusting well overall. When Carter cries, she gets worried, cries herself and runs to mom to tell her. She is very loving and concerned for her baby brother.

Thank you to all for your prayers, kind words, meals, supply donations, support, service and love. We would not be where we are today and doing so well without you. We wish you all the best!

Carter's Homecoming Pics

2009-03-03T12:04:00.000-08:00

Avery loves holding Carter.

She takes very good care of him and likes to stroke his hair.

Carter loves his swing. Much better than the old crank swing in the NICU.

"Got my swing, got my oxygen. This is the LIFE!"
Isn't he so cute?!

Getting to know each other on his first day home.

Grammy can always get the children to sleep the quickest.

Avery's visit to the hospital to see Carter. She wasn't sure what to think.
When she saw mommy holding Carter through the window, she put her hands up and said, "hold?" She wanted to hold him.

Getting burped on his last day at the NICU.

Oma and Opa came to visit after Carter's birth.
Avery was very happy to see all her grandparents at once.

Oma and Grammy took good care of Avery
while her mommy and daddy were at the hospital.

Carter Update

2009-02-21T19:23:00.001-08:00

Dear Everyone,

As many of you know, Carter has had some health problems and he came in a very special body. To update everyone, Carter has Down's syndrome and a heart defect that will require surgery in 4 to 6 months. He was born on February 7, 2009 at 9:54 am. He weighed 6 lbs. 13 oz. and measured 19 1/2 in. long. He has blondish brown hair, dark blue eyes (but those are subject to change), olive skin, and the cutest little face.

Carter had to stay at the hospital in the NICU due to the need to start medications for his heart and lungs. His stay was then extended to present day due to decreased body temperature, a bacterial infection, and loss of weight. He is also having problems keeping his oxygen levels normal, so he is on oxygen and being fed through a tube. He often gets too tired to eat and it is too much stress for his heart. Currently, antibiotics have cleared the infection, his body temperature has stabilized (allowing him to come out of the incubator), and he is eating better again and gaining weight. If he is still clear of infection and improving in the other areas by next Tuesday, then he will get to come home. YAY!!! But we are skeptical, because he really likes the nurses so he may find a way to stay longer, and they really like him too.

We will have to work very hard to keep him healthy and strong. Because of his heart condition and other factors, his immune system is weak and any illness could be very serious. As a result, we will not be taking him to public areas until after his surgery. We will also have to keep ourselves healthy and avoid any sick visitors from coming to our place. We appreciate your help and understanding in this matter. His heart medication will strengthen his weak heart. He has a "hole" in the center of his heart. All four chambers are exposed to each other due to the absence of the separation between the left and right chambers. So the surgeons will create a “barrier” and create two valves out of the existing large valve that separates the top and bottom chambers.

The first couple of days, both Abby and I were living at the hospital thanks to the help of Abby's mom who stayed with Avery. With the need for parental love for Avery, I am now spending most of my time at home with Avery and sleeping at home. Abby comes home for a while to spend time with Avery and I, but spends a lot of time, including nights, at the hospital. We have received (and continue to receive) much help from family and friends. We thank you for all of your love, support and prayers. He has already been a blessing in our lives and we love him so much. We can't wait to bring him so that we can have our family all together. And I can't wait to take to places like the beach and teach him how to play basketball and all other sorts of things he won't be able to do for years. We know the road will be hard, but we also know that we can make it. We will keep you updated on his progress and more pictures are to come. We wish you all the best.

Love,

The Rex Family

He's Here!!!

2009-02-12T16:16:00.000-08:00

Yay!!! Our beautiful new edition has come. Carter was born on Sat., February 7th, 2009 at 9:54 am. He weighed 6 lbs. 13 oz. and measured 19 1/2 in. long. He has dark brown eyes, blondish brown hair and the cutest facial expressions. As many of you may know, he is still in the hospital with some health concerns. He should be coming home around Feb. 14th or 15th. HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!! Bringing him home will be a great gift. Thank you to all that have helped, offered prayers, and expressed their love!!! We love you all.

Introducing Carter Hanson Rex

2009-02-12T15:55:00.000-08:00

OUR PRECIOUS LITTLE ONE

So Small

He has such a sweet smile

Here is Carter, mommy and daddy.

Carter trying to stop the papparrazi. "No pictures, please."

Isn't he cute?!

Mommy looking good after giving birth.

Daddy looks tired or at least he can't open his eyes.

Carter hanging out with Grammy.

Carter with Poppa.

UPDATES

2009-02-04T13:13:00.000-08:00

I thought I would write a post letting everyone know we will almost be a family of four. We are getting so excited to invite this little guy into our family. We are nervous how Avery will respond, but I think any parent is especially when they are expecting their second. We anticipate that Avery is going to be his "little mommy" she loves babies and loves to take care of her dolls.

We are still waiting to hear back from more dental schools right now. We are finding that this is the hardest part... waiting. Who likes to do that?! But it's all part of the process I guess. Brian has been able to be home more the last two weeks and it has been such a big help for me. The end of pregnancy is never fun so it's nice that Brian plays with Avery and can give me a break. Well, I think that's it. We will let you know when the baby comes and hopefully post pictures faster than we did Christmas.

CHRISTMAS MORNING

2009-02-04T12:45:00.000-08:00

I have been accused of not being a very good blogger... and it's true, I'm not. But here are a few pictures of Christmas to catch everyone one up on us. Avery was a little overwhelmed again. We are learning that one or two things is really all these little ones need. She was excited about her new bitty baby for Ompa and Oma and tricycle from Brian and I. It was nice that Grammy and Grandpa's baby buggy arrived two weeks late so she could be really excited about getting that. She loves to put her baby in it and lets us know that "Baby's sleeping"

Avery has this things with shutting her eyes for pictures when she says "cheese" eventually we hope to actually see her eyes in a posed picture.

Avery is very into Mommy's accessories right now. She needs to wear my earrings, bracelets, and necklaces all the time. Make up time is also getting to be a big deal. It usually consists of eyeliner and eyeshadow on the cheeks but it is all very cute.

Hannah got Brian these "perfect pushup" things. Now Avery has to be involved every time she sees Brian doing them. He's always good about letting her get her exercise time in too.

The Gingerbread House

2009-02-04T12:27:00.000-08:00

This is Avery's first gingerbread house. We did it Christmas Eve and she had such a great time with the candy. She would put one on the house, give a couple to Grandpa and then a few to herself. We were impressed with how long she was involved, but when she was finished she raised her arms and said "ALL DONE" and then hopped off Grammy's lap. We all had a good laugh.

Hannah and I tried to be in charge of the frosting. Grammy had her thoughts of what she wanted the house to look like... I think we missed her vision.

AVERY BEING AVERY

2009-02-04T12:21:00.000-08:00

Oma got Avery this skirt for her birthday and she absolutely loves it. When she wears it to church she has to wear it all morning over her pajamas before we get ready. She is such a girl. Last week she wanted to wear the bloomers on her head so of course that meant picture time. She cracks us up.

Striking a pose

Avery's TWO YEARS OLD!!!!

2008-12-27T12:54:00.001-08:00

Here are some pictures from Avery's belated birthday party. We had a fun party for her up in Utah on her actual birthday but we came home and had one with my parents a week later. She got this outfit from Omma and Ompa and it was so cute that I had to have her wear it for this. She got this little horse from Grammy and Papa, it attaches to the T.V. and she can do her ABCs and counting and all sorts of other things. She really likes it. She also got her first dress up cloths from Marisa and Jeremy and Ethan. She loves the shoes and skirt especially. She was insistent on wearing the skirt Christmas shopping the other day. Brian and I let her wear it in the car and then we pulled a quick distraction to get it off before we actually got into the store. We probably should have just let her wear it. I'm sure we will get more relaxed later on in our parenting years. Oh, and her cake turned out much better this year. I don't know if anyone remembers the pictures last year, but it was awful. We hope to never have one that turns out like that again.

Avery was doing pretty well at sharing with Ethan, sometimes she struggles with that but it is only with, go figure.

Here are the Sleeping Beauty shoes. When she walked around in them she looks like a little Grandma hunched over taking little steps. We love it!

Here is the tiara and the dress again, isn't it sooo cute!

The Polar Express and Temple Square

2008-12-18T20:28:00.000-08:00

Oma and Ompa took everyone on the Polar Express in Heber, Utah. It was a 90 minute train ride that reenacts The Polar Express book. We got hot cocoa and cookies. They read the story to us and we met Santa and Mrs. Claus. They also gave everyone a bell for the first gift of Christmas. Avery really liked the train ride and especially since she'd been on one earlier in the week. Ompa got a lot of good pictures so we didn't take that many, we will get some from him and hopefully post more later.

Oma got the girls these pajamas and they all wore them on the train. Aren't they so cute!

These are a couple pictures from temple square. It was my first time. I love this first picture that Brian took. I can't believe I never went before after living in Idaho for years. Oh well, it was worth the wait.

Thanksgiving in Utah

2008-12-18T20:17:00.000-08:00

We had such a great time in Utah, it was sad to go. It marked a few firsts for Avery. Riding on a train, jumping on a trampoline and swinging on the big kid swing all by herself. I love this picture of Natalie, Avery, and Ashley. They were going down the slide in a train and Ashley and Natalie would take turns being in the front and back. They had so much fun.

Here is Avery on the big kid swing

Natalie had a fun time going around really fast. At one point Avery slid down to her feet in the middle of the tire swing. Her little feet were moving so fast trying to keep up with Natalie's swinging so she wouldn't fall.

Ashley was so good at being soft with Avery, she was like a little mommy.

Avery kept getting frustrated with her hat, it kept spinning around to where she couldn't see anything. Those that were watching thought it was funny but I can imagine for a little two-year old that would be difficult.

Avery's Birthday Dinner at Spaghetti Factory

2008-12-18T20:02:00.000-08:00

So, I have to say that Tami and Scott's girls are sooooo sweet to Avery. They helped her get up and down the stairs multiple times a day (as it became a game for her) and they played pretty much whatever she wanted. As you can see from the picture they were often times holding hands together. Cousins are so cute, we wish we lived closer.

Our little family

Everyone

There must have been a lot of birthdays that night because we kept hearing the song sung by the wait staff. They then came and sang it to Avery. She wasn't sure who these people were singing, but by the time we got back home she was singing the song. It is so cute to hear a two year old singing Happy Birthday. They grow up too fast!!!

This Is The Place Monument

2008-12-18T19:45:00.000-08:00

I know this is an awful picture of me, but everyone else looks good, and Avery loved this train. She was so excited each time we saw it. This is the first time trains have even interested her at all. Scott and Tami took us here and the kids had a great time. At the Brigham Young home they got to write letters to Santa and then gave them to him and the adults really liked the hot apple cider that "Sister Young" provided. It was a chilly evening so that hit the spot. We saw a puppet show about how reindeer came into Christmas and then went to the live nativity. (They even had a real camel). Following that we learned an old time dance. Avery loved this part. At the end of the dance it was time for everyone to leave and it looked like the musicians were ready to pack up as well, Avery walked up to the lady who was announcing and said, "One more?" It was so cute in her little voice so the lady had the musicians play one more waltz and our whole family danced and Avery danced with her little cousins.

This is pictures with Santa, unfortunately little Natalie was already on her way to the next thing so we missed her in this one.

Here is Avery in the dance hall with Ompa. This trip was fun for them because she

actually wanted to be held by him quite a bit.

Ward Halloween Party

2008-11-04T13:24:00.000-08:00

This year, as you can see, we had Avery go as a Bumble Bee. She wasn't sure about the hood part at first but as soon as we got there she left it on the entire night. This year they had the kids play games to receive candy. She thought all the toss games were fun and was really excited when she got to choose something at the end. Avery tied for first place for her little costume, although she didn't have a clue she won anything. Brian was really excited about the massive candy bar they gave her (HIM) as a prize.

We just got there so she was still nervous

This is her friend Ethan who went as the tin man, they were both so cute

Brian represented the two of us by dressing up as a mad scientist

Avery and Ethan again. Oh, I forgot to say that once Avery had her bucket in hand it didn't matter what you did she was not going to let you have it. Her poor hands were getting imprints from holding it so tightly.

Mommy helping Avery get ready for the big night. Aunt Hannah is living with Grammy and Grandpa right now so she came down for the festivities.

So cute

Here is Avery's new apron, she wears it all the time. Last night we were making pizza and she came running in the kitchen with her apron so I could put it on so she could play with the flour.

Our little cook

Carving Pumpkins

2008-11-04T13:17:00.000-08:00

Well, we were excited about carving pumpkins this year because we actually thought Avery would be into it, but we were wrong. She doesn't like wearing her cover and hasn't since we got it for her months ago, and then she wasn't okay with how the pumpkin insides felt sooooo we hurried and finished hers so we could take pictures.

The beginning

After taking her cover off and one bow out

Final product with Daddy

Sporting a silly face with Mommy

A Little Bit of Avery

2008-11-04T13:10:00.000-08:00

Avery has really been into wearing mommy's shoes around everywhere. She puts many pairs on in a day and then lines them all up in my room. She has also become pretty anal about having things in lines not stacking and keeping things the way she likes them. The pictures of her DVDs are a good example of that. I was in the back the other day and came out to see this on the floor. She also does this with the books in her room, kitchen gear, and just about everything else. She is cursed to have two parents who are a little obsessive compulsive.

Visiting Oma and Ompa in Chicago

2008-11-04T12:42:00.000-08:00

We had so much fun in Chicago, and unfortunately we are just now getting to share our time there. This time we were there for 8 days so Avery got to get to know Oma and Ompa a little bit better. Every morning she would yell downstairs "Oma,Oma" as she ran around looking for her. We took Avery to a couple of fun children's museums and she had so much fun, her most favorite was in the little grocery store that Oma took her around in. The little carts were just her size and the food looked real. She got to put it in her basket and then up on the counter to pay. She thought that was great. We went to the top of one of the tallest buildings there The John Hancock Building, it is an amazing view. We went to the zoo, play ground, Navy Pier, and all sorts of other fun things. I realized after going through our pictures we don't have any with Ompa; however, he was able to take off quite a bit of time to spend with us so he was usually there even if we did a poor camera job. Thanks Oma and Ompa for such a great time. We miss you

Navy Pier

Going fishing

I couldn't get both of them to look at the same time

Avery loved all the cause and effects toys

It was so cold this day but Avery just kept wanting to play

Here she is with her Oma

The John Hancock Building

View of downtown Chicago

Here's Brian trying not to laugh

The Lincoln Park Zoo

The exhibits were so close, as you can see we could get pretty close to this lion, and when it roared the halls echoed. Avery was a little scared but when we started to make the noise back so did she and then she was excited.

More lions

We forgot to bring our camera this day, so this is the only picture we have of Avery doing her shopping.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY

2008-10-08T14:56:00.000-07:00

I can hardly believe that Brian and I have been married three years. We were married in the Redlands, CA temple on October 8th, 2005. So much has happened since then!!! I thought that in honor of this special day I would make a tribute to my husband. I am so grateful that he chose me. He is my best friend and helps strengthen me so much. Brian is one of those guys that everyone likes and one who never speaks ill of anyone. He helps remind me that there is good in everyone. Brian is a loyal friend and so much fun to be around. Brian is a really great dad. He always comes home and plays with Avery after a long day at work and he shows her so much love. He is one of the most patient Dads I've ever seen. His gentleness and kindness are truly one of a kind.

Here are a few pictures from our wedding day. We had such a fun day spent with friends and family. I will never forget the smile on Brian's face when I drove up to the temple that morning. I knew more than ever how lucky I was to have him. Since then my love has grown even more for him and I am so grateful that we get to spend eternity together. I LOVE YOU BRIAN!!!!

Happy Anniversary!

Excuses

2008-09-10T21:03:00.000-07:00

I know, I know, we have been very bad about posting new pictures. I think I must be one of the worst bloggers out there. But I do have a few excuses. First, I'm one of the worst bloggers out there. Second, I'm pregnant and sick and tired. Third, Brian has been really busy sending Dental School Applications out and we have literally just been taking care of our basic needs. Between work and his calling as Elders Quorum Pres. and me in Young Women and taking care of Avery we really haven't had much free time, although we are looking forward to what FREE TIME Might look like!!! Oh, by the way, we are having a BOY! We are very excited. We are trying to explain to Avery that she is going to have a little brother. I'm sure by the time he comes she will understand what that means but right now she doesn't seem to care. All in good time.

OAK GLEN

2008-09-10T20:47:00.000-07:00

We went to Oak Glen last weekend to get away from the heat and be in a prettier environment. Avery got to see animals and we bought some apples picked from the orchards in Oak Glen. I'm planning on making an Apple pie with them. I'll show a picture if it looks good but forget it if it doesn't. I still have not perfected crust and I fear it will be a good many years before I do.

Here are Brian and Avery standing next to a rather large tree, these aren't really common around here.

Avery had her own sunglasses but she kept wanting mine and would keep them on longer

so I let her wear them. (not that she would have given them back)

I seem to be wearing this outfit a lot when we take photos, so I just want you all to know that I do not wear this every day, I do have other clothes.

This was taken at Mountain Top Days held in Running Springs. Brian took Avery around in the helicopter and she did not want to get out. Now when ever she sees a helicopter or hears one she stops and says "helicop" its really cute.

She was just making silly faces but I had a hard time catching any of them.

SAN DIEGO ZOO TRIP

2008-09-10T20:29:00.000-07:00

Dana and Jared came down to visit with little Dylan and Ava, we met them down in San Diego to spend the day. We had a fun time at the zoo when the animals weren't hiding or asleep (although, I didn't blame them). Avery had a fun time getting to know Ava and we didn't even hear from Dylan alllllll day, he is by far the quietest baby I have ever seen.

We are sad that they have just moved to Minnesota. We are hoping to be accepted to a Dental School that is relatively close.

Avery thought the Giraffes were pretty fun.

Our little family

Ava does a much better job posing for the camera, there were a couple of times that Avery seemed to follow her lead but obviously not this time.

This is back at their hotel, all we had to do was walk out the back doors and we

were right on Mission Bay.

They went exploring down at the Bay and found a crab,

the girls were excited to check it out.

Aren't they cute!

This was outside the petting zoo. It was hard to get them to smile or look at the same time. This was the best we could do.

Huntington Beach Trip

2008-07-10T20:01:00.000-07:00

We didn't really do anything fun for the 4th because all of my family was in Idaho and Brian's family was in Chicago, so we decided to go to the beach the day after. We took Avery last year but she was too young to really enjoy it. This time we were a little nervous she would be afraid of the water but boy were we wrong. Now I just have to be nervous about where she is at all times. If we are not careful she'll head out there on her own. She couldn't get enough of the waves and although she was freezing, she cried when either of us tried to take her out. Brian says she is "His Daughter" and I would have to agree. Although I love the water I am very aware of my limitations. Avery and Brian just say

"BRING IT ON"

Avery kept pointing out for Brian to take her further

Here we are watching Daddy surf

Brian bought Avery a bunch of beach toys and some friends who came with us borrowed them to make a castle so naturally Avery needed to check things out and keep an eye on them.

Here's Brian going out to surf and Juan going to body board.

Me and Avery

Cute faces

I'm not use to wearing sunglasses because I either lose them or forget them and here I have them and yet I still don't wear them...sometimes I don't understand myself

Avery helped James and Christina with the bridge and moat, I was impressed that she didn't try and destroy anything, she was just very patient.

This picture was actually taken before swim time today, I just thought I would throw it in. This is Avery's friend Nathan

Here is Audrey helping Brian put Avery on the body board. I still can't believe how much fun Avery had in the water and in the sand. Normally she doesn't like to be dirty but she had a ball. We're excited to take her again!!!

AVERY DAYS

2008-07-10T19:52:00.001-07:00

Here are just a bunch of pictures we've taken of Avery lately. Most of the time she

was having a good time.

This morning Avery decided that she wanted earrings in so we did. She was very excited and kept needing to look in the mirror.

This is the older couple's house who lives next door. Avery loves to play with them.

This is at the Park with Grammy again

Grammy sets up a little soapy water for Avery to wash "her" measuring spoons in and of course get a little wet at the same time.

Rock Climbing at Keller Peak

2008-07-09T19:49:00.000-07:00

We went rock climbing with some friends, Juan and Audrey, and we had a good time. I haven't been in a couple years and I'm a couple months PREGNANT (Surprise) so I really had to take it easy but Brian and the others did well and were able to do more climbing than me.

Here's Brian on the first climb, he had the job of trying to figure out the best hand and foot holds.

Here he is again

This was the second climb, I thought this was a good shot. I didn't attempt this one because you had to do some major stretching and hopping, there was great potential for me to eat it.

This is a lovely shot of me. I found it pretty difficult with less energy than normal, when I finished I was so nauseous that I'm really surprised I didn't throw up.

This is Audrey, she was actually the first one to get to the top. GIRL POWER

This is her husband Juan. He and I haven't been as much as the other two so we felt good about what we accomplished.

PASADENA RUN

2008-07-08T15:57:00.000-07:00

On June 21st four friends and I ran in a 8k race down in Pasadena at the Rose Bowl. It was a trail race and that was a first for me. We all had a really good time although it would have been much better if they had started it earlier, the sun is sooooo hot these days and 8am is too late to begin a race. Brian and Avery along with some of the other husbands came down to support us. It was fun to see them there at the beginning and then cheering us on at the end. There were only about 1,000 runners so much different than the 23,o00 at my San Francisco marathon.

Here's Avery being such a good girl for Daddy

This is right before the gun went off

After the race, I actually had all sorts of energy after, too bad I didn't have more during the race.

These are some of the girls. Jenny (my friend who ran the marathon with me in October), Audrey, Brooke (who was 5 months pregnant), and Cathy

Brian wasn't sure this was me because I normally don't run with a hat

Here I am again, almost finished YEAH!!!

At the Park

2008-06-23T11:09:00.000-07:00

Avery loves this little park up by my parent's house. She loves to go down the slides and if your not fast enough to catch her she is off and heading back up again

Here she is walking up the steps all by herself, I can't believe how fast they grow

Here she is on the swings, which I couldn't believe. For some reason she hasn't liked the swings but this day Grammy showed her how to hold to the front and the sides and she was all excited and laughing at herself.

Here she is clapping for herself, she does this and that is your cue to clap and if you don't start she stops and stares at you until you do. This is fine for us but she expects the strangers to clap for her too. It's pretty funny

MORE AVERY

2008-06-23T10:56:00.000-07:00

It has been sooooo hot down her, I mean BLAZING!!! We can hardly spend anytime outside except to go swimming in the afternoon in a pool that doesn't even feel that refreshing and in the morning around 6:00a.m. We put a camper chair on our porch (since we don't have patio furniture) and Avery and I read stories and play until it gets too warm. Avery loves to lounge in this chair and tells me to sit on the floor. I'm not sure but I think

I am getting the raw end of the deal

She brings all her babies out and lays them just so, and don't move them because she doesn't want any of that

I think if she could she would eat, sleep, and play just like this

Learning Days

2008-06-23T10:47:00.000-07:00

Avery is getting to be like a sponge, she does everything we do. She loves to be in the bathroom and do her makeup and brush her teeth. She also loves to give Daddy hugs and kisses. Brian says we are going to have to watch out for her at school. The teacher will be calling us saying she trying to kiss all the boys. YIKES

Here she is giving Daddy hugs

Avery loves to load her arms up with whatever she can find. She puts these rings on and runs around singing "ashes, ashes, we all ...DOWN." Thats the only part she really likes out of the song so that's the part she sings over and over

At Grammy's House

2008-06-23T10:37:00.000-07:00

Avery has a mullet (I think that's how you spell it) and I have really been debating on whether or not to cut it. She looks so cute in pig tails but the top is just not growing as fast as the back. It is hard now that she is a 18 months and finally getting hair.

Here is Avery in the shed area of my parent's backyard. She dropped her baby so she is trying to shake him off.

This is her baby that stays at Grammy's house, she has to get him as soon as

she comes in the door.

Story Time

2008-06-21T02:02:00.000-07:00

This is a video clip of Brian reading "How the Grinch Stole Christmas" to Avery just before Christmas. She was trying so hard to stand and walk and she later took her first steps after Christmas. Enjoy!

"WICKED"

2008-05-21T22:02:00.000-07:00

We finally went to see Wicked last thursday night. It was AWESOME, AMAZING, SPECTACULAR!!! We will definitely be seeing that again. We went with Becca because she came for a surpirse visit and wanted to see it. We went down to LA early and stood in line to enter the "Wicked lottery." They do it on the week nights to help fill the theater. We put our names in and they drew 13 names, each name got to have two front row tickets for $25 a piece. The first name they called was Becca's, we were so excited since it was a slim chance of us getting it based on the number of people there. Becca let Brian and I have the

front row and we tried to get her a good seat too. We all loved it and

bought the CD of course so we could listen on the way home.

THANKS FOR THE GREAT SEATS BECCA

Here we are waiting to go to our seats

This is Becca and I after winning the lottery. Our buttons say " I won the wicked lottery" on them. YEAH

Becca has all the luck, she told us she was lucky and she wasn't kidding. I said I wasn't and I really wasn't.

Here's Brian after the show, look how excited he is. At the beginning

of the show the monkeys are running around and one swung out

on a rope right over our heads... that is how close we were.

MOTHER'S DAY

2008-05-21T21:50:00.000-07:00

For Mother's Day this year Brian gave me some picture frames and told

me he knew we didn't have many pictures of me and Avery so he would

take more picture of us together. Here is the beginning of that.

This is before church with Avery's hair still intact

This is after church, after nap, and after she pulled her hair out.

I was playing the piano and she often times wants to come and sit

to play with me.

Hopefully when she takes piano lessons she will be more disciplined and

play like her Aunt Katie or cousin Emily.

Her hair is growing

2008-05-21T21:44:00.000-07:00

We can finally pull a little hair on the top of her head, thus far we have only

conquered pony tails.

I love her faces, it is so hard to catch her smiling because she is always

changing up her face so fast

We almost got a smile, but still a cute face

Our Friend Jenny's Graduation party

2008-05-21T21:28:00.000-07:00

Here is the happy graduate Jenny with her husband Kyle. Doesn't she look great.

Kyle has had Leukemia for the past two years and Jenny and I ran The Nike Women's Marathon in Chicago for him last October (that's 26.2 miles). For those of you who don't know, it was such a great experience. They are both such good strong people and continue to accomplish great things even with major trials. Congrats!!!

Avery and her friend Nathan were exploring in the backyard

They found a water fountain and thought, "Wow, that looks fun."

They started picking wood off the ground and putting it in the water.

Avery kept trying to give Nathan her pieces.

These pictures don't show it but they both were pretty soaked when the wind finally

picked up and they started getting cold.

OMPA CAME TO VISIT

2008-05-21T21:18:00.000-07:00

We were so excited that Ompa got to come a little earlier than he normally does after a long day of meetings. Avery was still awake and ready to party for a few hours. We are so grateful that she can see him when he comes so far for buisness! WE LOVE YOU OMPA!!!

Avery was showing Ompa her newest dance moves

She loves her blanket and quickly warmed up to Ompa again, she was ready for him to hold her within just a few minutes.

This one kind of looks like the funky chicken, or monkey, or something,

anyway she's cute whatever it is.

GRAMMY'S BIRTHDAY

2008-05-21T21:11:00.000-07:00

Avery helped her blow out the candles and Grandpa made the cake and it was good.

Look at that cake. Angel food with sugar free banana jello and fat free whipped topping, I was amazed at how much I liked it. Good job Grandpa!!!

BATH TIME AND MORE EASTER

2008-04-21T11:06:00.000-07:00

Sunday dinner at Grammy and Grandpa's house

Grammy made a little Easter egg hunt for Avery. Because we don't give her candy she got fruit snacks and animal crackers in her eggs, she for the most part just wanted to open them up and not eat. She has never been a big eater.

She loves to sit her and rock next to Grandpa, it makes her feel like a big kid!

Avery is getting to be so fun. She is finally saying all sorts of things like, "On your mark get set, and Grandpa, juice, milk, shoes, etc." And we are so excited that she finally can say please in sign language. She use to just get mad at me when I asked her to do it before and then other day she just did it out of know where, I WAS IN SHOCK! Avery also loves to dance, she could dance to just about anything. We were in the grocery store today and she was helping push the cart, she had to stop every so often so she could dance to the music playing. I was laughing to myself. Kids are so great-- for those who have them we always wonder what we ever did without them!! Brian is staying very busy with studying for the DAT we are so proud of him, work all day and study all night. I'm just staying busy with Avery, callings, and stamp club.

It's bath time again!!

MOM! Do you have to take pictures?!

Big Lips

Easter Lunch Box and Bunny

Mommy found an Easter movie she use to watch when she was a little girl, Avery thought it was pretty fun

Watching her Easter movie

Avery's First Easter Egg Hunt

2008-03-27T12:04:00.000-07:00

Avery with her friend Ryan

Avery was so excited to run around and be outside that she ended up only getting 4 eggs. The other kids her age were picking up the eggs quickly and eating the candy inside, but because she doesn't get candy she opened the eggs and then just carried the candy around.

Mommy had to pull the eggs out of the bushes so she could get them because otherwise she wasn't going to go to that much trouble she would have been just as happy to run around. Maybe next year she will be more excited about the "hunt"

A Couple of Moments

2008-03-27T11:56:00.000-07:00

We were having dinner at Grammy and Grandpa's house and Avery wanted out of her seat so she could see Grammy so she sat on her lap and the proceeded to eat her Asparagus then went on to Grandpa and did the same and then to Mommy. Who knew she liked that?!!

Avery has been sick on and off for well over a month and this day she had a fever and Daddy was trying to make her feel better. She wanted him to unload all of the stuffed animals and all of the blankets that sit in baskets on her shelves.

Here she is holding her medicine and directing Daddy

Avery's Mexico Shirt

2008-03-27T11:45:00.000-07:00

On our cruise we bought Avery this shirt but this is the first day she could wear it and I still have to use a ribbon in the back. She looked so cute that I had to take pictures. She was sad at first but she got happier.

She loves to watch the movie Ratatouille so we watch little segments here and there.

This is the "I'm tire" pose. She sucks two fingers on her left hand and with her right brings up her blanket to rub under her nose, it is too cute

Abby's First Bread

2008-03-27T11:31:00.000-07:00

This is my first bread!!! Mom found the recipe for me and it turned out pretty well. Every week I make two loaves and I am getting much better but there is still room for improvement. I've also been making recipes out of my new cookbook "Deceptively Delicious." In each recipe there are vegetable purees... so I have been steaming and pureeing everything. We had beet pancake for dinner the other night. Brian said they were good but he couldn't get past the fact that they were pink and had "beets" in them. Avery liked them so we will be having those again.

She's All Girl

2008-02-29T12:14:00.000-08:00

These pictures are for Oma!! I was talking to Oma this day on the phone while Avery and I were on our morning walk. Avery was pushing her little car around that she use to ride in and accidently tripped and scrapped her knee. This is her first day of scraps so I thought we needed to document it. I also thought Avery looked so cute in this outfit that I needed to show lots of pictures.

She's more girl and less baby...how sad

Avery loves her doll

Here's the scrap, it was bleeding but it's okay now

I love her little blue eyes they make me melt

Brian says the people in Haiti use to do this while they worked, they said it was comfortable--apparently Avery agrees.

She has the cutest little faces

LOVE HER

This one is a little blurry but Avery makes this face so much that I thought I would show which part of me she got!!!!

AVERY AND COUSIN TAVIE

2008-02-29T11:35:00.000-08:00

I know I put a lot of pictures on this post but these two were so cute at the park. They had such a great time on the slide together and Avery was so excited to do whatever Tavie was doing. Tavie is only three months older than Avery but much taller. It was fun to see Avery get so excited to have another little person around. Avery kept calling her "baby" and trying to pick her up even though, without question, she is the baby of the two.

Avery was out of control, it was great!

I decided to get in on the fun although I am a little big for this slide

She likes to push herself off

Both Tavie and Avery were not quite sure about the swings at first

Daddy rescued Avery from the scary swing

Here they are driving the bus

And now they are the passengers... Avery tries so hard to pull up and be taller

We found that if we stuffed a blanket in front of her she liked it a little bit better

Tavie and Uncle Evan, isn't she adorable

Avery is cheering Tavie on

Tavie wanted to play the piano so of course Avery did. Tavie kept saying "I do it"

They are so cute

I threw this picture in because all moms love it when their little girls love their own babies. Avery wanted me to wrap her baby up and then she walked in her room and stood by the rocking chair so she could rock her baby and pat her back... priceless moments

VALENTINES DAY

2008-02-29T11:28:00.001-08:00

Avery's first time down the slide by herself

We were visiting the next door neighbor and Avery thought she would stick her face against the screen...well you can see what happened when she did that.

These were the flowers Brian got us, Avery liked this one especially so we let her play with it.

One more time

A COUPLE OF AVERY'S FIRSTS

2008-02-07T13:15:00.000-08:00

Avery loves to reach up and get into the makeup drawer. This was the first time she got the lipstick open. She knew just where it went.

Avery's hair has always been too short so we finally were able to put pigtails and bows in last week.

She did really well letting me put them in. Our little cutie is growing up!

We were doing laundry so Brian pushed Avery around in the basket, she thought it was great and knew her stuffed animals would feel the same.

This is my new hair cut, I didn't like it at first but I am getting use to it

She cracks me up!!!!

BRIAN AND AVERY

2008-02-07T13:04:00.000-08:00

Avery loves to wear her sunglasses, and loves even more to put them on other people.

I bet Brian didn't know being a father consisted of all this

This is her "WAND"

GROWING UP

2008-02-07T12:09:00.000-08:00

Avery loves to push her lion around while "talking" on the phone.

She gabbers and laughs at nothing at all, it's great !!!

Now she needs her phone, diaper bag, and lion

She can't smile for the camera because she "needs to take this call!"

Avery was obviously finished or her she thought her head was really hungry

Cute smile

A little more serious

Christmas with Grammy and Grandpa

2008-02-07T12:01:00.001-08:00

Grandpa and Grammy went to Idaho for Christmas so we had a late Christmas with them

Avery was excited to see them when they got back

Opening presents

Avery with her baby doll

Christmas at Our House

2008-02-07T11:31:00.000-08:00

We were at Laguna for a couple of hours the day before Oma and Ompa went home. We ate on a nice patio and then spent time watching the dolphins play. They were jumping around for around 2 hours, it was really neat. We had fun taking pictures together, and we had a lot of fun having Oma, Ompa, and Spencer for Christmas. Even if poor Spencer did break his collar bone on Christmas day.

Watching the dolphins jump

The Family

Our sweet Avery

Our first time with our new camera

Avery loves her Oma

Down at Laguna

Look at what the facet can do...awesome

Ompa loving Avery

Getting ready for our trip to Laguna

Avery and daddy reading "The Grinch" with her own Grinch

They were having so much fun

Avery loves kitchen (nice bow)

CRUISE TIME

2008-02-01T21:15:00.000-08:00

For a graduation present/second anniversary/1st post baby getaway we went on a 4-day Cruise with Dana and Jared to Catalina and Ensenada, Mexico. We had a really good time. We had some interesting guests sharing our dinner table. We're not sure if they will remember the cruise after all their beverage consumption. It was hard to be away from Avery (the first night the absolute worst) but it was nice to get away and be together.

Brian was basically in a hypothermic state because he had a leaky wet suit.

Needless to say this wasn't his most favorite snorkeling experience.

I don't think they knew I was taking this picture

Riding in the golf cart

Brian kept getting closer and closer to the pelican.

Jared decided he wanted to get in on the action.

Brian sneaking up on the pelican

Touring Catalina on a $40 an hour golf cart.

We quickly made stops so we didn't run over into the second hour and

have to pay an additional $40.

This is as dressed up as we get

Check it out, our ship has a tail

Taking the tour the first day

Here we are on the tender boat traveling to Catalina

BRIAN'S GRADUATION

2008-02-01T20:35:00.000-08:00

Brian with the school's President

Avery was so good during the 3 hour graduation...

so when it was over she was ready to be home.

Brian and Spencer

Brian's candy necklace from cousin Rachel!

HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY

2007-12-31T10:59:00.001-08:00

I laughed when I read Dana's blog and found out that she didn't like Ava's cake because Avery's cake did not turn out either...and it looked much worse than Ava's. I was trying something new and decided I will never do that again. Avery didn't like it either so we ended up giving her a cupcake we made for her guests and she LOVED it!!! She loved the tissue paper (of course) and her little lion walker. She did laps back and forth for over an hour, we had to drag her to bed.

Avery and Mommy, isn't that hat too cute?!

Avery and Daddy

She loved the party favors

Grammy and Grandpa. They were such good sports about wearing their party hats too!

YUMMY!!!!

She kept trying to do what everyone else was doing

It was nice of Avery to let us "share" her presents

This is the mess up cake, it looks like a 4 year old made it... actually they probably would have done a better job. The icing was melting, her name was dripping off the side. I was ready to cry. Everyone tried to console me, but they were unconvincing because they knew it was as bad and I thought it was

Thanksgiving 2007 and Fun Shots of Avery

2007-12-31T10:26:00.001-08:00

Avery loves to play with cords!!!

This is her special basket, she loves to find her treasures

She was helping with the camera... see she wants to plug it in

She loves generic chex, she could eat them all day

Mmmmm...would you like some?

We went to Barbara's house for Thanksgiving, it is becoming a tradition. Mom did all of the cooking while the rest of us watched football and ate yummy snacks.

Grandpa was trying to get Avery's attention, but she and mommy were to focused on the game

Here's Avery tired, but yes, still watching the game.

Isn't Daddy cute though?!

Avery's 1st Ward Halloween Party

2007-11-21T10:41:00.000-08:00

Avery's 1st Halloween!!! She's so sweet!

Brian and I went as Snowboarders,I've never been big on dressing

up so I thought this was pretty good. Avery kept the hat on for a few mintues, and

then she was done. That's usually how hair things go.

We love our little pumpkin pie!!!

She wasn't quite sure about all the dressed up people.

Some made her a little nervous

I just threw this picture in. This was the first time she went down

the slide. She thought it was fun even though her face doesn't show it.

Grandpa Came for A Quick Visit

2007-11-21T10:26:00.000-08:00

It had been a little while since Avery had seen her Grandpa

so she didn't come to him right at first, but he knew how to

win her over...BLACKBERRY

He was so nice to let her call his bosses and secretaries

They had so much fun

Grandpa put it away, thinking they were finished. She crawled
over and said," Ah ha, that's where he keeps it."
Obviously she wasn't quite done.

She loves to talk on the phone and this is a
REALLY COOL PHONE

Grandpa and let her get the rings off his head,

over and over again

Avery and Trena's son Jordan

2007-11-21T10:17:00.000-08:00

These two were so funny. They were fighting over the

wooden spoons and Jordan accidently smacked Avery in the face.
They were crawling around side by side. Avery showed
him her room (supervised of course, no boys in the room without an Adult present)
and Jordan showed Avery how to open ALL the cabinets in the kitchen. Thanks Jordan.

Jordan is my old roommate Trena's son. Avery is just two months older.

Grandmother and Grandpa Jerry Came to Visit

2007-11-21T10:01:00.000-08:00

Cousin Melissa came to visit everyone. Avery enjoyed her knitting.

This is our four generation picture. I was really sick that night,

but was glad everyone could be together
We try to make her smile but mostly we get this!!

More frowning

She loves to play with her rings

It is so funny now that children are in the picture they command

all our attention... and we love it Ü

Grandmother had major surgery a few days after these pictures.

We are glad she is recoving well. We understand she was pretty funny while

she was heavily medicated.

Visiting Aunt Becca and Uncle Blair

2007-11-03T19:52:00.000-07:00

Avery with Aunt Becca, our last day...sad

This is the gang minus me... I just take the pictures!
We had so many ducks by us, we think they came for Avery

Avery wasn't scared at all, she wanted to get closer

Aunt Hannah was taking good care of her

Isn't Aunt Hannah soooo cute

Avery makes some of the funniest faces

Uh oh, she ate a flower, "Who was on Avery duty when she did that?!"

What's the deal with so many pictures, I can't smile anymore.

Okay, one more!
She didn't want to touch the flower. Come to find out, that's the one she ate.

It kind of grew on her after awhile

We found these flowers called "Sexy Rexy" and we thought that

would be a cute picture...judge for yourselves.

We went to a real life tractor pull at the Spokane Fair. Surprisingly enough

Avery and her cousin Britton really liked it. However, they didn't like

us covering their ears everytime the pulls began.

Brian wanted to show us his rock climbing skills.

He was very fast, we were all impressed.Coming down after the big climb.

CATCHING EVERYONE UP ON OUR SUMMER AND FALL

2007-11-03T19:18:00.000-07:00

Grandpa taking a nap after a long and very entertaining week of children and grandchildren

(He likes his Gaterade Ü)

Grandma was trying so hard to get Avery to smile and look

at the camera that she forgot to do it herself.

Almost there

There we go, isn't that sweet!

Brian and Avery at the Botanical Gardens in Chicago with Tami, Scott, and the kids

The three of us in Downtown Chicago, Avery and I had a great time Brian was a little stressed Ü

At Grandma and Grandpa's House just after the BIG 5K run that Brian and I ran with Grandpa, Tyler, Scott, Garrett, and Emily. We are missing Baby Jackson in this picture, he was sleeping

Here we are at Avery's first trip to Disneyland. She did so well!!! She loves to wear her sunglasses

OUR WEDDING DAY, October 8,2005

2007-11-01T21:27:00.000-07:00

We had such a fun day!! We ended up getting left at the temple without a way to get to the luncheon. Brian's brother Spencer accidentally took the keys with him. When we called him to come he said he just began eating. He came and got us and we made it to the luncheon.

2007-11-01T21:16:00.000-07:00

How Precious

About Us

2007-11-01T20:43:00.000-07:00

Brian and I first met at a Stake Conference in Highland, California. My Cousin Debbie Garvin wanted me to meet the Stake President's son and I didn't want to. She ended up bringing him to me. Well it turns out I was glad she did. We dated on and off for a couple years and finally I convinced him to marry me!!! We were married in the Redlands California Temple on Octber 8th of 2005. We have been happy ever since. Our little Avery came November 28th of 2006 and she was sooo cute. She weighed 7 pounds 12 ounces and was 18 3/4 inches long. She has a sweet disposition (like her dad), but definately has some of her mom's sass.